Women at Home
Nonfiction Book
Seeking a Life of One's Own
“Her world extends far beyond the walls of a single home. It is the sum of all that she sees.”
Women at Home is a non-fiction book that weaves in the author's own photography. It is also the full-length version of Women at Home, the documentary series Amos Xianjing Dai directed in 2022. Over a decade, she has been a quiet visitor to the daily spaces and inner lives of 14 Chinese women aged 20 to 70, including a single mother, a social media creator, a working professional, an entrepreneur, a retired professor, an elderly woman on a remote island, and others.
The book traces how each woman mends and explores herself in solitude, and how she connects with Chinese society and a complicated world. It records the lives of women living alone in China before and during the pandemic, and the changes of the era behind them. It is about how women live alone and explore themselves, about intimacy and ways of loving, about growing up, life and death, and about time.
Living alone is only the way in. The real questions are: In a fast-developing contemporary China, how can a woman live on her own terms? Where do her deep-rooted certainty and resilience come from? How does each decision take shape, and what is their decision making? And how do these women find connection and support in one another's stories?
“Living alone doesn't mean cutting yourself off from the world. It means giving yourself more room to embrace both what is alike and what is different.”
They have many "I don't knows."
They move from "I don't know" to taking action.
I didn't know that my child could arrive so suddenly.
Wen SaI don't know if I'll ever get to fight for something for myself in this lifetime.
Jing LiuI don't know if quitting my job right out of school to start a business is too crazy.
YimanI don't know if going back to school at nearly 40 is too late.
Guo ZhengI don't know if there's a kind of marriage I could accept.
Yuanyuan ChenI don't know how to express my feelings for others appropriately.
Qianyang LiI don't know how as someone with a Tsinghua PhD could fail the course called marriage.
AnnaI don't know if, at 58, I'm still allowed to miss him.
Yuanhong LinI don't know if 73 counts as having lived long enough.
Lanfang ShenI don't know how to go on living after my husband's death.
Zijun DengI don't know if I'm the last generation on this island.
Xiaoyun FangI don't know if blocking my mother makes me unfilial.
LaoyaoI don't know if having surgery alone is the ultimate loneliness.
Lin WeiI don't know if, after retirement, I can return to my youth.
Jing YeI don't know if, once this book is done, I can set out again and see new horizons.
Xianjing Dai (Author)These are the stories of the 14 women in the book, and threaded through them is the author's own story, as the fifteenth. This is not a collection of pure interviews. The author is the subject. Starting from her own confusion, she narrates in the first person and meets more and more women along the way, tracing the warmth and kinship between them and the connections between their inner worlds.
Through action and choice, each of them moves beyond her "I don't know" and discovers a more complete and truthful self, finding a certainty of her own in an uncertain age.
Dai with “Wen Sa” the first woman she talked in this project
Author: Amos Xianjing Dai (戴显婧)
Produced by: Chinamediatime (时代华语)
Publisher: Jiangsu Phoenix Literature and Art Publishing House (江苏凤凰文艺出版社)
Price: RMB 65.00
Release date: 09/2026
ISBN: 978-7-5808-0669-7
Trim size: 130 mm × 190 mm
Pages: 416
Binding: Paperback with double jacket, thread-sewn, exposed spine; monochrome and four-color printing